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Purpose

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  Hello my readers, are you all having a good time? You know people are always asking me, what career should I choose, what is my life for, how to find your life's calling.... These questions make me wonder... Do my ancestors too had same questions in their mind or they submitted it to their fate? And then we see examples of Leonardo, Mozart etc. We are caught speechless.  Now my question is to everyone, do you ever love everything about a thing you love doing. Of course you don't. Then why do we expect ourselves to love our careers fully. Even really successful people have something that they really hate about their profession. So love is not the only thing that decides. In my experience with people, their professional success is nothing more than a result of war. Yes,  a war, a fight. This war is not something outside them. Because money never stopped people from becoming successful, it only motivated them...i guess😅. These people are in competition with themselves ( t...

My life, my story, my circus, my monkeys, my rules

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  Life, my dear, is a gift. DONOT dishonour it by being sadistic which means you can't skip the present because of something happened in the past. That's not the way it works. You need to analyse everything that is happening to you right now, you have to greet every person that comes into your life. Hell, sometimes this present will make you cry for weeks. You will do things that you don't want to, you will have moments when you don't want the present to end.  But you have to keep going. Always remember you are not romanticising the self destructive artist you can be, instead you are the ball of fire( energy) that creates meaning and order wherever it goes. You are the author of this blank notebook called life. Your stories will evolve you. Live your story, don't miss out on yours reading others. . 

Love never dies

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 Not always is it a necessity that i am to be reminded that I am only a primate. Just another thing 🙂. Are not you one of those belonging to narcissus's family. Don't you think you got that trait just like that.  Yes we are. We are all egoistic creatures. We love our ego's more than we love our relationships. Of course you noticed, there are more break ups and divorces that people falling in love and marrying. Why do you think that is? We don't fall in love to fall out of it....do we? Love never dies. People may stop loving, people may die. But what stays is the memories. How may made the other person feel?. And it's always a feel good experience because we are in love. Love makes things look way better than they actually are. It's like someone cast a spell on you. Breaking up is easy, falling out of love is easy but it takes courage to stay. I won't ask you to stay in a toxic relationship but I also don't want you to end it just because he/she has some...

Now is important

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will 24 hours be ever enough?.  Maybe no, maybe yes Corona didn't gave us stress we had it before. Our country is known for high death rate caused from stress and anxiety. Stress originates when you are not at peace with your mind. For example, you work more than 12 hours a day and still have a great life or you work only 8 hours a day and keep thinking about a person who works 1 hour a day and your start coming home angry and frustrated, you make you yourself as well as your family miserable. Stress is of two kinds: eustress and distress. Eustress is good for you. It necessitates the aldosterone rush and brings that rush back to normal by releasing melatonin which gives you a sound sleep. Distress happens when this functioning is disturbed. We take this stress unnecessarily, we provide the soil for this stress to grow by unhappy thoughts. A student once asked his master please teach me how to make people happy. The master asked him just to prepare the food, clean the room and brea...

Mastery

It was not long ago, we walked on four legs. We could not walk upright. We faced a lot of challenges. Then we started walking on two legs. People believe that this walking on two legs allowed our hands to make tools and us the most intelligent species of that time. But all this fuss miss the point.  Our dominance, our mastery arised from our brains. Yes we developed it through practice. Our brain loves challenges, problems beyond its comfort zone. There is a lot of ego boast when solve problems through sheer intuition, words and formulas may come later.  Life is suffering. Of course god didn't created us to just sit happily. He wanted us to emerge from whatever we are to our best version way better than he created. But with time we gave into these depressing feelings like boredom, impatience, confusion and fear. We lost our power over these not so over powering situations. These days time rules us instead reverse should be the case. Keep ruling my primates. This is the time of...

What you are looking for is looking at you right now

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  Sometimes we wish things were more perfect. Sometimes we wish we could change everything through control or force. But maybe not everything can be controlled. Not everything does not everything has to be perfect and as per our dreams and fantasies. Of course i the special one who reads romance novels is talking about this.  I  recently read somewhere that we are empty creatures, forever wanting and always greedy. There is literally no amount of money that can satisfy this greed. Maybe this is why they say money can't buy happiness. This is because we are unconsciously made to believe unconsciously that whatever we have is never enough as our neighbour verma ji has bought a new car recently and I only have my royal Enfield. That is situation where i should be someone regretting my bike. We are social creature to the core. We were born to care about what we think about us and our so called reputation.  Our needs maybe different from what we want. It can never be the ...

The EASIER option

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  Rest my readers..... It's been really long blogs afterall.  We humans love being lazy. Sometimes it's so hard to imagine that you need to work to ear money ( just kidding). Jokes apart but sometimes we are avoiding our work not just because of this laziness. There could be many other reasons. One reason as for me was fear of failure. Don't you my words fuel my ego🤓. I used to fear it to the point that i would explain it as i am not feeling of doing anything except sleeping. Okay i will admit that I am hypersomniac but sometimes it happens more than usual. This happened a lot until I saw someone....that someone...who works day and night, even on sundays even if she is not in a the mood or tired. She works always never comes. I think you probably guessed her by now...yes she is your mom. She never refuses to cook for you, to do things that could make you happy. She works for a bigger reason that us. She works for love. Love is the reason you want to work your ass off. Love...
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 Born and brought near river Narmada, I say narmada har more than i say i love you ( p.s.yes you are allowed to doubt the second part).  Everyone knows that water is a fluid so it flows but so we are. We think we static, phasic creatures we live in now, we live in the moments. We could easily forget our past. Looks easy, you know but i don't think it's that easy.  We literally are product of time. The time we live in defines us more than we think. Thinking that it's not is a blunder. We stand with our ancient brains in the moment. We have the same primate head our ancestors had so no offense if you believe you have 80 year old lady's soul in you. Our brains was designed to be a product of past and the future in making. But we don't date ourselves, do we?.  Life is not the second you are spending right now reading this. It's a mindless repeatation of things we did in past. Brain was never built in a day. So right now you can't say you just read my article, yo...

Everything is temporary

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So I was really motivated, my last article had that intoxicating effect. But nothing is permanent isn't it?. We wish we had more time, we wish we could love more and we wish we never die. But that's where we go wrong, reality is a bitch - it takes you by surprise, sometimes it depresses you. There is duality everywhere, we can be so much in love one second, the other second we are so ready to kill that person.  And things are not gonna be perfect, neither good nor bad. Then we should not be someone affected by situations that happens to us daily. I want to end it with my favourite quote from movie jojo Rabbit :" let everything happen to you beauty and terror. Just keep going. No feeling is final."

You are the reason

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  You are the reason... Again I slept hopeless last night, only to worry my my mom a little. She's immune to all this now but still. I looked for one good reason that made me look for the only reason that could put all of my sadness to some work. Of course i got nothing till morning until I saw her....yes a girl (advisory alert: it's not a romance novel)....a girl less privileged but more content than me. .....a girl more hopeful than me....a girl more kind than me....a girl who could love her life more than me. I was drawn to her vibe, she was all sweetness, all Beauty, and all life. It was from her i knew how to live a little more than the time frame i got. You know i went on complaining about things my whole day.... until I saw her.  There's literally nobody is the professor of your heart except you. It's always your choice to shine so don't stop until the world ends.