No strings attached
We really are rational creatures, aren't we?
There is always a purpose and reason to our behaviour or so we think. Let's say, i want my mom to prepare aloo Paratha. It is such a task, u know i gotta do all the menial tasks at home, which certainly don't require my brain. I will do just for that bite. This is a simple case.
More complexly, we have goals, we have dreams, we have relationships. These are actually the things we love and we care for. But....
They are all conditional. We love people but we expect them to love us in the same way we love them. We love our jobs, but we expect our jobs to be in a certain way. What happens in these case is that we love conditionally, we expect our jobs to be according to our own ideas, we expect people to be in a certain way. And that's where we go wrong.
It is rightly said, we should not expect the fruit of whatever we do. We should keep doing without any expectations.
Now I am not saying, there is a right way to do things but there's is obviously a wrong way.
Our expectations to people and things make us miserable. So we should stop expecting?
Hell no....
I am just saying expecting only things are in our hand.....you will never be unhappy trust me.
And to reach our expected results, we need to burn for it. Yes, burn for it. A desire like fire that covers the phoenix is what you need. There's no such thing as doing things half heartedly...either you do it or you don't. And that comes when we are uncompromising with the demands that are happening to you right now. Yes, now is what we have.
I hope today, you hear the voice of Athena. That voice that came to soldiers in the time of need and gave them the exact solution to their problems.
Just love reading ur blogs... Kinda a refreshment... Keep blogging, it makes my day☺
ReplyDeleteSo true 🙂!! I want to add something to it !! Don't invest emotionally in everyone ! Investing emotionally gives power to the person and drains our stability !
ReplyDeleteSure i will. Thanks
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ReplyDeleteThis is beautiful. Keep going. ❤️
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