Never been the best at goodbyes

 GOODBYES

some are hard, some are easy...

Sometimes you say it, but you don't mean shit...

We all know that pain when you don't even want to say it but you have to.

Now sit if you are standing and reading this. I want you to feel something. Relax.

Think about the person or thing you are about to say goodbye or you already have said. Can this little word would ever be enough to end all your good times and memories?

No...never...

Something don't die. They don't really have a life span. These things are what makes you think that you are a whole complete being. We are social animals to the core. We want that validation from outside ourselves to make us feel complete.

I hope you never feel like being used just coz you liked a part of the bond you had.

It's like you had a good time too.

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